The Alpha Male Mentality阿尔法男性心理

Laws of Attraction Part III法律吸引人第三部分

The Alpha Male Mentality阿尔法男性心理

In nature the attraction between mates is determined by a philosophy of survival of the fittest.在大自然中队友之间的吸引力是由哲学的优胜劣汰。 The mate that is chosen is the one that is most likely to breed strong, healthy offspring.大副说，选择是一个最有可能滋生强劲，健康的后代。 In many animal societies the alpha male will be the only male in the pack, and it will be his job to impregnate the females in order for the species to survive.在许多动物的阿尔法男性的社会将是唯一的男性在包，这将是他的工作就是要怀孕的女性，以便使该物种的生存。

Many of the male members of the human world look upon this strange situation with a small touch of wistfulness.许多男性成员的人类世界看待这一奇怪的情况，一个小触摸wistfulness 。 What would it be like to have your own harem?什么是想有自己的后宫？ What they cannot see is that the alpha male has become the alpha male not by birthright but by having proved over and over again that he is strong enough and intelligent enough to lead the pack-and to keep it.他们不能看到的是，阿尔法男性已经成为阿尔法男性不是与生俱来的，而是证明了一遍又一遍，他有足够的智能，足以领导包和保持。 When the alpha male is challenged by another male for possession of his pack he must fight to keep it or it will be taken away from him.当阿尔法男性面临的挑战是由另一男子藏有他的包，他必须努力保持或将他带走。 This is, again, to ensure that the species survives; the one who wins the right to be an alpha male is the one most likely to father strong offspring.这是再次，以确保物种的生存;一个谁胜的权利，是一个阿尔法男性是一个最有可能的父亲强烈的后代。

Of course, that’s all very good for the animal kingdom, but how does this pertain to the human world?当然，这一切都很好的动物王国，而是如何，这是否涉及到了人类的世界？ Simple.简单。 Humans have their alpha males too, the criteria by which they are classified is just a bit different.人类有太多的阿尔法男性的标准，它们被归类只是有点不同。 There are many different ways by which a male can be classified as alpha.有许多不同的方式，其中一名男性可以被归类为阿尔法。

- The powerful alpha. -强大的阿尔法。 This is the man who wields the most power, both in their place of business and among their community of friends.这是谁的人掌握最权力，在其营业地点，并在其社区的朋友。 Women who are attracted to this type of alpha have probably fixed their sites on a business tycoon or a politician, if not royalty.谁妇女被吸引到这种类型的阿尔法可能固定他们的网站上商业大亨或政客，如果没有专利。 These women want position and the power that it brings.这些妇女的地位和希望的力量，它带来了。

- The intellectual alpha. -知识阿尔法。 These are the men who are able to provide brilliant dissertations on any topic.这些都是男人谁能够提供出色的任何专题论文。 These will probably go forth to receive PhDs and save the world.这些规定将可能会获得博士学位并拯救世界。 Most of these will be found spending their lives in their offices or laboratories working side by side with their mates.其中大部分开支将发现他们的生活，在办公室或实验室并肩工作的队友。

- The military alpha. -军事阿尔法。 Women love a man in uniform, and the more bars and stripes he happens to be sporting the better.妇女喜欢穿制服的男子，以及更多的酒吧和条纹，他正好是体育越好。 These men have power, a sense of adventure and incredible stories to tell over the dinner table (assuming, of course, that the majority of the conversations they have about their lives do not contain the words, “That’s classified”).这些人有力量，一种冒险和难以置信的故事在饭桌（假设，当然，大多数的交谈，他们都对他们的生活不包含的话来说， “这是机密” ） 。 Their mates can also count on them to be out of the country for the better part of the year so that a livable harmony never has to be developed.他们的队友也可以指望他们离开该国的更好的一部分，所以，一个适宜居住的和谐从来没有开发。

- The “bad boy” alpha. - “坏男孩”阿尔法。 This alpha takes many forms.这阿尔法采取多种形式。 He may be military or law enforcement-black ops or undercover, of course.他可以是军事或执法黑色处或便衣，当然。 He will have a shady past that he never reveals and at least one criminal element has issued a price on his head.他将有一个可疑的过去，他从来没有透露，至少有一名犯罪分子已发出价格要他的人头。 He will wear black and not converse a great deal, assuming that the women he is with will know what it is that he wants.他将穿黑色，而不是相反的大量假设的妇女，他是将知道它是什么，他想。

- The artistic alpha. -艺术阿尔法。 This will be the man who sells his paintings in a downtown museum but has had showings in Italy and France.这将是谁的人出售他的画作在市中心的一个博物馆，但已表现在意大利和法国。 He will have a small cottage on the beach and he and whoever his lady of the moment is will spend their days (and nights) home eating strawberries dipped in chocolate and reciting poetry to each other.他将有一个小平房在海滩上，他和他的夫人谁，当务之急是将花费其天（夜）首页吃草莓蘸上巧克力和背诵诗歌彼此。

Sound familiar?听起来很熟悉？ Every man in the world has known someone who fits into one of these categories and every woman has wanted to date one.每个人在世界上已经知道有人谁符合这些类别和每一个女人就想日期1 。 They are the few, the proud, the alpha males.他们是少数，骄傲，阿尔法男性。

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