The Alpha Male Mentality Alpha Male Mentality

Laws of Attraction Part III Love Attraction Part III

The Alpha Male Mentality Alpha Male Mentality

In nature the attraction between mates is determined by a philosophy of survival of the fittest. I naturen tiltrækning mellem skøn er bestemt af en filosofi om overlevelse i den stærkeste. The mate that is chosen is the one that is most likely to breed strong, healthy offspring. Den vagthavende, der er valgt, er den, som er mest sandsynligt, at racen stærk, sundt afkom. In many animal societies the alpha male will be the only male in the pack, and it will be his job to impregnate the females in order for the species to survive. I mange dyr samfund alfa han vil være den eneste mand i pakningen, og det bliver hans job til imprægnering af kvinder, for de arter, for at overleve.

Many of the male members of the human world look upon this strange situation with a small touch of wistfulness. Mange af de mandlige medlemmer af den menneskelige verden ser på denne mærkelige situation med et lille strejf af wistfulness. What would it be like to have your own harem? Hvad ville det være som at have din egen Harem? What they cannot see is that the alpha male has become the alpha male not by birthright but by having proved over and over again that he is strong enough and intelligent enough to lead the pack-and to keep it. Hvad de ikke kan se er, at alpha mænd er blevet alfa mandlige ikke ved fødselsret, men ved at have vist sig igen og igen, at han er stærk nok og intelligente nok til at føre den pack-og beholde den. When the alpha male is challenged by another male for possession of his pack he must fight to keep it or it will be taken away from him. Når alpha mandlige anfægtes af en anden mand for besiddelse af hans pack han skal kæmpe for at holde det, eller det vil blive taget væk fra ham. This is, again, to ensure that the species survives; the one who wins the right to be an alpha male is the one most likely to father strong offspring. Dette er, igen, for at sikre, at de arter overlever; den ene, der vinder retten til at blive en alpha han er den ene mest sandsynligt, at far stærke afkom.

Of course, that’s all very good for the animal kingdom, but how does this pertain to the human world? Selvfølgelig, det er alt sammen meget godt for dyreriget, men hvordan gør dette vedrører den menneskelige verden? Simple. Simpelt. Humans have their alpha males too, the criteria by which they are classified is just a bit different. Mennesker har deres alpha hanner også de kriterier, som de er klassificeret er bare lidt anderledes. There are many different ways by which a male can be classified as alpha. Der er mange forskellige måder, hvorpå en mand kan klassificeres som alpha.

- The powerful alpha. - Den stærke alpha. This is the man who wields the most power, both in their place of business and among their community of friends. Dette er den mand, der udøver den mest magt, både i deres plads i erhvervslivet og blandt deres fællesskab af venner. Women who are attracted to this type of alpha have probably fixed their sites on a business tycoon or a politician, if not royalty. Kvinder, der tiltrækkes af denne type alpha har sikkert fast deres websteder om en virksomhed Tycoon eller en politiker, hvis ikke royalty. These women want position and the power that it brings. Disse kvinder vil have, stilling og den magt, det giver.

- The intellectual alpha. - Den intellektuelle alpha. These are the men who are able to provide brilliant dissertations on any topic. Det er de mænd, som er i stand til at levere fremragende afhandling om et emne. These will probably go forth to receive PhDs and save the world. Disse vil sandsynligvis gå ud for at modtage PhDs og redde verden. Most of these will be found spending their lives in their offices or laboratories working side by side with their mates. De fleste af disse vil blive fundet bruger deres liv på deres kontorer og laboratorier, der arbejder side om side med deres skøn.

- The military alpha. - Den militære alpha. Women love a man in uniform, and the more bars and stripes he happens to be sporting the better. Kvinder elsker en mand i uniform, og flere barer og striber han tilfældigvis også sportslige det bedre. These men have power, a sense of adventure and incredible stories to tell over the dinner table (assuming, of course, that the majority of the conversations they have about their lives do not contain the words, “That’s classified”). Disse mænd har magten, en følelse af eventyr og fantastiske historier at fortælle over middagsbordet (forudsat, naturligvis, at de fleste af de samtaler, de har om deres liv ikke indeholder ord, "Det er klassificeret"). Their mates can also count on them to be out of the country for the better part of the year so that a livable harmony never has to be developed. Deres skøn kan også regne med dem, der skal ud af landet til den bedre del af året, således at en livable harmoni aldrig at blive udviklet.

- The “bad boy” alpha. - Den "bad boy" alpha. This alpha takes many forms. Denne alpha antager mange former. He may be military or law enforcement-black ops or undercover, of course. Han kan være militære eller retshåndhævende-black ops eller undercover, selvfølgelig. He will have a shady past that he never reveals and at least one criminal element has issued a price on his head. Han vil have en blakket fortid, at han aldrig afslører og mindst én kriminelle element har udstedt en pris på hans hoved. He will wear black and not converse a great deal, assuming that the women he is with will know what it is that he wants. Han vil bære sort og ikke konversere en hel del, hvis det antages, at de kvinder, han er med, vil vide, hvad det er, han ønsker.

- The artistic alpha. - Den kunstneriske alpha. This will be the man who sells his paintings in a downtown museum but has had showings in Italy and France. Dette vil være den mand, der sælger sine malerier i et downtown museet, men har haft udsendelser i Italien og Frankrig. He will have a small cottage on the beach and he and whoever his lady of the moment is will spend their days (and nights) home eating strawberries dipped in chocolate and reciting poetry to each other. Han vil have en lille hytte på stranden, og han og hvem hans dame i øjeblikket er vil tilbringe deres dage (og nætter) hjem spise jordbær dyppet i chokolade og reciting poesi til hinanden.

Sound familiar? Sound kender? Every man in the world has known someone who fits into one of these categories and every woman has wanted to date one. Hver mand i verden har kendt en, der passer ind i en af disse kategorier, og hver kvinde har ønsket at datoen en. They are the few, the proud, the alpha males. De er de få, den stolte, alfa hanner.

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